It is important for you to determine if, when, under what condition,
and for how long any of these treatments should be administered.
Also determine whether you'd like to donate your organs for transplantation
or your body for scientific study.
This is a tough subject to discuss, especially with those loved ones who
simply refuse to talk about their own mortality. Ask them
to "please help your family members by letting us know what care you would
prefer in case of injury or illness, or the type of care you wish for us
to provide for you at the end of your life."
Personal values pay a large part in anyone's decisions on issues such as
these. Many subjects appearing on standard Living Will forms could be
further individualized to make is easier on your loved ones. Defining
one's own definition of "quality of life" for example: Do you
want to be able to recognize family and friends? Do you wish to have
palliative care and hospice? What are your priorities when it comes
to relief of pain and distress? Do you want to live as long as possible,
no matter what, or would you want life-sustaining procedures only if you could
recover sufficiently to be comfortable and active?
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